Please say hello to darlin’ Ms M, whose mama was one of the women who had one of our glamourous Hollywood maternities at Jane Photo. Ms M came in at three weeks, as sweet as punch, and very, very wakeful. As you’ll see from her mama’s comments, below, she’s having a health struggle now, so please join Jane Photo in sending good wishes and prayers the family’s way.
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Here are some words from mama:
When did little M arrive, and how much did she weigh?
She was born on September 25th, 2009 at 3:14 am
The question all moms want to know the answer to: How was your labour?
My labour was interesting… Being that she is my second, everyone was telling me that it would be fast and easy, not so much the case! I was in labour from 7pm – 3:14am the next morning, however my water broke at 4am on the 24th, so I didn’t get much sleep before the big day. M was in a position called OP brow presentation which made it difficult for her to come out. This basically means that she came out with her back to my back (or sunny side up) and instead of having her chin tucked into her chest like babies are supposed to she had her chin up so she came out with her forehead first instead of the back of her head. She’s a bit of a rare baby I’ve been told as only about .02% of babies get in this position, and a miniscule amount of those babies are able to be born vaginally which she was (drug free I might add!) Other than all that fun though… It was good!
When did you get to go home?
We got to go home on the 26th, but because of the time she was born at it was like we spent 2 days in the hospital.
How did your older child react to having a new little sister?
He seemed relatively unchanged. He did go through a bit of a whiney period, but we did our best to keep his routine the same and I think that helped. He has definitely warmed up to her and he’ll give her kisses and tickle her toes! He’s a great big brother!
What is the best thing about being mom to two?
I don’t think I could pin point it. I just feel so lucky to have so many people in my life to love. It’s so rewarding seeing them change every day.
What is the most challenging part of being mom to two?
The most challenging part is dividing my time. It’s challenging to make sure that they both get quality time, but as well I want to make sure that our son’s routine is still similar to before the baby was born so that he doesn’t get too much change all at once. It’s also challenging finding the energy to chase after an 18 month old when you’re only sleeping for three hour periods!
Your little poppet is ill now; can you tell us a little bit about the challenges she (and you) are facing?
Well, we’re currently in Childrens Hospital (should be out in a couple days) because my midwife detected a heart murmur at our routine 5 week appointment. From the appointment she sent us straight to the local hospital. We spent the night there and were transferred to BCCH the next morning. She’s doing fine, it’s quite a surreal experience because by all appearances she seems fine, however she’s got 2 holes in her heart that are going we’re going to be monitoring. They will either fix on their own, or she’ll need surgery to correct them. The staff here have been amazing, however the biggest challenge is the unknown. Every day is a waiting game to see if she’ll gain weight so we can go home. She’s such a little trooper and I’m so proud of her!
What do you wish for Ms M as she grows?
I wish that she grows to be a happy and healthy little girl. I hope that she follows her dreams and doesn’t let anything hold her back. I hope that she shoots for the stars and lives a long and happy life!
Do you have any advice you’d like to offer to other moms as they embark on pregnancy and parenting?
I guess I would just say to go at it with an open mind. Be prepared for things to change and for all of your ideals to go out the window. Be strong, and be open minded. Cherish every single day, every moment, and take lots and lots of pictures. Your kids grow up so quickly that before you know it they’ll be grown and you’ll be wondering where the time went!
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